How to Find a Babysitter for an Adult Baby

NOTE: Mama Jenn makes no guarantee and cannot assume any legal, financial or any other responsibility for interactions between Babysitters listed on this page and anyone who contacts them for babysitting services. The babysitters, mommies, and nannies are listed on this page only as a service to the Adult Baby community.

Finding a babysitter for an AB is tedious and time consuming, but not impossible task. Professional sitter services, especially those who advertise that they will sit for the elderly or adults are your best bet. Nursing agencies that offer at home nursing services are your next best avenue of approach. The idea is to get a "professional" of from either the Heath Services industry or from the Babysitting community or (the least desirable source) from professional dominatrixes. Carefully explain exactly what services that you will need from your sitter. (see form below for what sitters like to know) Quietly emphasize in a reasonable manner that you need nursing or babysitting services and have no interest in "Adult Services". If questioned, explain that you don't expect sexual services, but that you are completely incontinent and have psychologically "adjusted" to your lack of bladder and bowel control by roleplaying a baby - complete with bottle feedings. Explain that you are ambulatory and are able to walk and give your babysitter or nurse help in your care.

Sometimes it can be helpful to mention that your psychiatrist has recommended roleplaying as a means of accepting your helpless (completely incontinent) condition. Health care professionals are particularly susceptible to this approach if you are honest at the outset. They are used to dealing with wet and dirty diapers when caring for incontinent elderly patients and are not very surprised if a man has an erection during a diaper change. Sometimes it's useful to have a woman (your real mother, your wife or girlfriend or a female friend) make the phone calls for you as a "concerned" family member or friend. Under no circumstances should you misrepresent your needs or tell them that you are a real baby to be cared for. Misrepresentation of the situation could lead to your arrest. Be honest and prepared to make a lot of phone calls!

Of course, if there is an AB babysitter in your area, he or she might be the perfect solution. Advertising on AB want ads such as the one on our page and DPF's page might help too; especially if you can't afford the high fees that professionals charge. If you don't have time or patience to search out your own sitter, and are either too embarrassed, frightened to make inquires on your own, but have the money for a specialized search, then use Kathi's Sitter search listed at the bottom of this article. She is an expert in finding babysitters in local areas.


Mommies, Nanny's, Babysitters, and Mistresses who have Websites

The following are weblinks to men and women who advertise on the Web that they catering to or are willing to babysit Adult Babies. It is legal to advertise such services because they are not sexual services and do not constitute prostitution. Although some of the women listed are "Professional Dominatrixes", not all those listed fall into that category. Please check their Website first for their rules, fees or forms. All of them are alike in one respect; they don't offer sexual services, so don't ask. Click on the Mommy's name to go to their websites.

Name

City/State

phone

email

rate

Notes

Aunt Linda New Orleans, Louisiana   abnursery@aol.com    
Fantasy Makers 510-234-7887   $140 an hour    
Lady Lilith San Francisco, CA (also Pinole and Vallejo, CA   lilith@ladylilith.com donation is $200 an hour I have lots of books, toys, and games. Baby food and bottle feedings are included. Please, no poopy diapers.
Kristen Northern Pennsylvania   kmw@epix.net No fee listed Note: Kristen is a 48-year-old male
Miss Erica Columbus. Ohio   ericakent@aol.com    
Mistress Eisanna San Francisco, California (415) 206-1100      
Mistress Intrigue Fort Lauderdale, Florida   domina@mistressintrigue.com    
Mistress Isha Melbourne, Australia   cruelisha@mistressisha.com    
Mistress Josephine San Francisco, California 415-551-7125      
Mistress K Jacksonville Fl/Southeast GA   MistressK1@webtv.net    
Mistress Psyche Baltimore, Maryland   psyche@connext.net    
Mistress Samantha New York, New York   Mistress-Samantha@usa.net    
Mistress Tamara Greensboro, North Carolina   mistresstamara@mistresstamara.com    
Mistress Zenith San Diego, California 619-298-5844      
Mommy2Love Hollywood, CA   mommy2love@aol.com $99  
Mommy Angel Quebec, Canada   mommy4ab@yahoo.com No fee not a professional
Mommy Dee Dee Montreal, Canada   mommie@prisms.net   (Submit Babysitting form)
Mommy Leslie Dayton, Ohio   loveshell99@yahoo.com No fee not a professional
Mommy Shelly Dayton, Ohio 937-878-0211 call anytime. mommyshell@hotmail.com   Mommy Shelly is a nurse by profession,
Mommy Mia Los Angeles, California 310-827-4518      
Mommy Moon Seattle, Washington   mistressmoon@clubstiletto.com    
Mummy Shelly England - East Sussex 15 minutes from Brighton 0777 9948399 hello@mummyshelley.co.uk £90 hour (minimum) Fee includes all food, drink, napppies and use of all clothes, furniture and facilities.
Nanny Lynnette Hartford City, Indiana   ladylynnette@yahoo.com    
Nanny Nanc Toronto, Canada   Nanny_nanc_@hotmail.com    
Nanny Patty Seattle, Tacoma, and Everett   nelson52@wa.freei.net $25.00/hour

4 hour min.

 
Mommy Gillie Vancouver, Canada   ravenfyre@telus.net    

 Mommy and Daddy Babysitters without Websites

Name

City/State

phone

email

rate

Notes

Cathy Ann Madison Htes MI (248) 541-7682.   $100. / Hr but
would like a 2 Hr minimum and $350 / Day.
I am not an AB but I do take care of one. female sitter, gay/straight
okay, professional.
Eugene L Barry Jr Middletown, NY (914) 342-2059 after 7pm ebarryjr@orn.net $30 per hour, $150 per day, no weekend service available, gay/straight okay, non-professional, male sitter, no AB furnishings,
T.I. Atlanta, GA (770) 452-7181 anytime LoveURMommy@aol.com $200 per hour full day service or weekend service not available, gay/straight okay, professional, female sitter, some AB furnishings,
Matilda Ottawa ON   babygirlie81@yahoo.com $30.00 an hour or $100.00 per day. I do not have access in my home for darling AB's, but am willing to travel in Ottawa to the home of any AB. A day is from 10am until about 2pm. I honour most requests and wishes (as long as they are resonable) and am willing to care for AB's every Friday.
MommyNicky Jacksonville, FL. (904) 292-2665 mommynicky@hotmail.com $200 per hour full day or weekend service not available, gay/straight okay, professional, female sitter, some AB furnishings,
Tommy Teague Deland, FL (863) 447-1385   $50 per hour, $150 per day, $200 per weekend, non-professional, gay/straight okay, professional, female sitter available, some AB furnishings
Ed David Clinton Township, MI 810-226-0673 anytime edavid@wwnet.com    
Lynn Juozilaitis Bolingbrook, IL 693 459-4510 9 AM until midnight local time      
Joel Schmidt Chesterfield, MO (314) 907-4659 anytime   $10 per hour, $50 per full day, $100 per weekend, gay/straight okay, non-professional, no female sitter available, no AB furnishings
Sondra Mars Los Angeles, CA (323) 461-9357 M-F, 9am-5pm, commommy@goddesnarquesa.net $200 per hour, $600 per day, no weekend service available, female sitter, gay/straight okay, professional, no AB furnishings
Eve Harrison Marina Del Rey, CA (310) 827-4518 9am-3pm PST   flexible day and weekend rates, female sitter, gay/straight okay, professional, some AB furnishings
Rocky Texas and Nationwide   abycamp@yahoo.com email for rate AB/DL Caretaker & Massage Therapy specialist working with the AB/DL community.Email for more information
Abby New York City Area   abbyland19@aol.com $30-$50 an hour - $300.00 per day - 4hr minimum. 7 hr per day maximum. Professional Mommy. All AB's welcome to email. Prefer male AB's. Will go to AB's home. Gay/bi/straight/CD/welcome. Weekends can be arranged. Available for full week care. Will travel, but prefer NYC area.
Uncle Frank Kingman, Arizona   Frank2AB@aol.com rate not listed I am expereinced in babysitting and changing adults. I can travel to larger near-by cities. Available most weekends.
John Talon Cincinnati, Ohio (OH_KY_IN)   talonk@hotmail.com Rate negotiable. In your house Babysitting for little girls

Phone Mommies

Phone Mommies are women who advertise on the Web that they well treat an adult client like a baby over the phone for a fee. Click on the Mommy's name to go to their websites.

Name

phone

email

rate

Notes

Auntie Zane 1-800-684-1706   $1.99 per minute with a 10 minute minimum Calls are billed to your Visa, Master Card, Discover Or American Express.

"the nurse and the firm hand!"

Mommy2Love 213-461-2829   $1.75 per minute with a 20 minute minimum. Major credit cards are accepted
Mommy Gwen 1-800--360-6205 mommygwen@aol.com $1.99 per minute with a 10 minute minimum Calls are billed to your Visa, Master Card, Discover Or American Express.

"A tender touch of loving care!"

Miss Erica 614-443-1696   $3.00/min. 15/min. minimum charge Visa - Mastercard - American Express
Miss Evelyn (937) 254-6649 evelyn937@mailcity.com No fees listed  
Mistress Psyche 410 719-1566   No fees listed  
Mommy Ann 757/488-6105   $25 for 15 minutes. Personal checks accepted from DPF members only.
Mommy Dee Dee   mommie@prisms.net 30minute phone calls cost of $30 If you are willing to commit to once a week for four weeks, the cost is $25 per call or $100 for the 4 week period, thus saving you a total of $20.
Nanny Lynnette 1-765-396-2237   $ 2 per min MasterCard and Visa

An American BabyCamp

What could be a better and more pleasant babysitting experience for an AB than to go to a babycamp where one can be a baby for three or more consecutive days in absolute privacy without worrying about intruders, the phone, food or diaper changes? If you have the money, then a babycamp may be the right approach for you!

BABYCAMP in the Beverly Hills area. BABYCAMP is an ADULT-ONLY age-regression, role-playing experience. BABYCAMP is a fantasy atmosphere catered to the needs of the AB/DL com0munity. All equipment is Adult-sized and Fully Functional. This includes, but not limited to, Cribs, High Chairs, Playpens, Bottles etc. BABYCAMP supplies ALL Adult Baby Clothing and Baby Needs. If your needs are specific, they will work to accommodate you in the best way possible.

Quote from their Webpage:

BABYCAMP is All-Inclusive beginning atUS$1250,Including 3Day/2Night Accommodations, ALL Meals, Custom-Chosen Adult Baby Clothing PLUS Our BEAUTIFUL Staff!

Application Form

mailto:BabyCampLA@aol.com


A British Baby Hotel

The very next best thing to a Baby Camp is a Baby Hotel for baby's British Holiday! Mummy Hazel operates a boarding house in the U.K with many non-sexual AB services. (Please note that diaper soiling is NOT permitted in her establishment and will result in a hefty fine for the offending baby! Wetting is okay.)

Mummy Hazel in the United Kingdom (mailto:mummyhazel@hbenterprise.co.uk) A £50 booking fee is required, and is refunded only upon arrival

CLUB MEMBERS

  • Overnight stay, Mon-Fri £80/night, weekends £120/night

    Clothes hire, per visit £20

    Restraint, per visit £20

    Afternoons, Mon-Fri only £20/hr (min. 2hrs)

    NON CLUB MEMBERS

    Overnight stay, Mon-Fri £100/night, weekends £150/night

    Clothes hire, per visit £25

    Restraint, per visit £25

    Afternoons Mon-Fri only £25/hr


  • Baby Club

    Hush-a-Bye Baby Club in Kent, England

    Primarily focused on male Sissy babies, Mummy Clare runs the Club. Baby food, bottled milk and diaper services are included in the fees. No email address. (Adult baby club, adult baby clothing catalogues available)

    Prices at last available quote:
    Approximately $110 a night ($140 for non-members), Spanking is about $7 more.

    Address:
    HUSH-A-BYE BABY CLUB
    c/o 43 SOUTH HILL ROAD
    GRAVESEND
    KENT DA12 1JX


    A Fee-Based Sitter Search

    If you are desperate for a local babysitter who is (usually) a trained nurse or an experienced babysitter from a temporary agency that has been informed of your needs (without embarrassing you by having to make the calls yourself), you can hire Kathi to make a baby Sitter Search for you!

    Note: Kathi charges a $350 "finder's fee" for locating a sitter for you for her time and long distance charges. The sitter will charge between $30 to $50 per hour in additional fees. Kathy makes verbal contracts in your behalf and (quite rationally) insists that the behavioral guidelines that she outlines to the babysitting services must be followed to the letter by every one of her clients.

    Kathi's Adult Baby Sitter Search or (mailto:absitters@aol.com)


    Notice: More Babysitters Needed!

    Although this is the most comprehensive list of babysitters for AB’s that’s ever been posted on the Web, the demand for local babysitters far exceeds the supply. If you are a babysitter who would like to babysit ABs, email your Babysitter name, your city and state as well as your preferred email address. If you have Adult-sized baby furnishings and an established rate, we would be happy to post that information as well. If you would like your name removed from this list you can also let us know here.

    Email me with the following info at babylover4ever@aol.com

    Babysitter name:

    City and State:

    Homepage:

    Your Email:

    Additional Info:


    Getting Started as a Babysitter for AB's

    There is little difference in babysitting an AB or a little baby. In some ways, babysitting an AB is easier because they are too big to carry around. If you are babysitting in the AB's home, then an hourly fee of $30 to $50 dollars is acceptable. Higher fees may be charged for babysitters who have complete nurseries with adult-sized furnishings as well as AB clothing and diapers. It is essential, however, to establish the ground rules and the needs of the baby from the inception of the agreement to babysit an adult. This document is meant as a guideline for babysitters to establish the initial contract between the adult baby and the babysitter. If you don't permit messy diapers, then this is the place to indicate your limits. Use the Save function of your browser to save this as an html or text document. Then you can edit it for email or Webposting purposes.

    Sample Babysitting Form

    Baby's Legal Name_______________________________________________

    Address___________________________City________________________________

    State_____________Zip______________Phone______________________________

    Physiological Gender_______Age_____Height_____(Inches or cm) Weight______(Lbs or kgs)

    Email address___________________________________

    Your sexual preference: Are you straight?___Gay?___Bisexual?___

    Your Babysitter Sex/Role Preference

    Mommy___Daddy___Big Sister___Big Brother___Female Babysitter___ Male Babysitter___Friend___

    Your Baby Role

    Your Baby Name______________________Your assumed gender________

    Your assumed age role while you are being babysat

    Infant(Newborn to nine months)____ Baby (nine to twelve months)____

    Toddler (Twelve months to Two Years)___

    Preschool (Two years to four years)____Kindergarten (Five to Six years)___

    Pre-adolescent (Seven to eight years)____ Adolescent (Nine to Twelve years)____

    Teenage (Thirteen to Eighteen years)___

    Your behavior while you are being babysat

    Are you a demanding baby?___A sissy baby?___A submissive baby?___ A whinny baby?___Outgoing?___Shy?___Fearful?___Clinging?___Helpless?___Introspective?____Do you suck your thumb?____ Do you need to cry?___ Do you need a pacifier?____ Do you need cuddling?___

    Your baby personality

    Are you Playful?____Silly?____Fun?___Helpful?___Fearful?____

    Cuddly?____Loving?___Passive?___

    Do you need to take naps?___If "yes" to naps, what time(s)__________________________

    Other________________________________________________________________

    Your Potty Needs

    Do you need diapers?____Always?____Occasionally?____Frequently?___

    Do you wet your diapers?___Mess them?___Both?___

    Are you dry during the day?___Dry at night?___

    Do you have frequent "potty accidents"?____

    If "yes" to accidents, are they Wet?___Messy?___or Both?___

    Do you wear training pants?___ If "yes". During day?___, During nigh?t____

    Have occasional accidents in big boy undies or soil/wet them frequently?___

    Other potty needs______________________________________

    Your Feeding Needs

    Do you need a baby bottle or tippy cup?______________

    Do you drink Baby Formula?___Fruit Juices?___Fresh Goat's Milk?___Water?___Other?___

    If you have selected Baby Formula, which brand is your favorite?________________________

    If you have selected Fruit Juices, which are your favorites?________________________

    If you have selected Other, which are your favorites?________________________

    Alcoholic Drinks: Kaluha Chocolate Milk___Mama Jenn's Special Formula___

    Do you eat baby food?____Do you eat First Foods?___Second Foods? ___OrJunior (Todder) Foods?____

    If yes" to baby food please indicate your favorite brand. Heinz?___Gerber?____

    Do you eat baby Dinners?___Vegetables?___Fruits?___Deserts?____

    What are your favorite baby foods?______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

    Do you eat big people food?___Do you need a baby bib at a restaurant?___

    Do you have a favorite fast-food restaurant?___If "yes" what is the name of the restaurant?______________________________________________

    Would you like to be brought to the restaurant by your babysitter?___Or would you rather accompany him or her in the backseat of the car to the take-out window and eat it later?___

    Do you need to be spoon-fed?___Can you feed yourself?___

    Do you have other feeding needs?__________________________________________

    Your Clothing/Dressing Needs

    Do you have any special clothing needs?______________________________________________

    Do you have any special baby clothing that you would like to bring to the babysitting session?___

    If "yes", then describe the clothing_____________________________________________________

    Do you need to be dressed and undressed?___Can you dress yourself?___

    Can you put on and tie your shoes?___

    Do you have other deessing needs?__________________________________________

    Playtime

    Do you need a playpen?____Do you play with baby toys?___Toddler Toys?___

    Do you have your own favorite toys to bring to the babysitting session?______

    Do you like watching Cartoons?____What is the name of your favorite cartoon(s)?_________________________________________________________

    Do you have other TV favorites?__________________________________

    Public Outings as a Baby

    Never___Sometimes___Frequently___Discreetly___Open___Any Thing Goes_______

    Dressed as an infant/baby___Dressed as toddler___Dressed as a little boy or girl____

    Other____________________________________________________________________

    Discipline

    None__Hand Slapping___Scolding___Spanking___Time outs/Corner Time___Early bedtime/naps___Enemas___Laxatives___Soap washings of dirty mouth___

    Other__________________________________________________________________

    Your Health needs

    Are you a diabetic?___Are you insulin dependent?___Are you epileptic?__if "yes", do you have Grand Mal seizures?___Do you have a heart condition?___Do you need nitroglycerine on occasion?___Do you have any medication(s) that a babysitter should administer on an hourly or daily basis?___

    If "yes" to the above question, please describe the medication(s) and how often it (or they) needs to be administered________________________________________________________________________

    Do you wear dentures?___

    Do you wear contacts?___

    Do you wear either of the above or a special medical appliance that you need when you are roleplaying a baby?___

    Do you have moderate to severe sleep apnea?___If "yes", do you have and use a Bipap machine every night?___

    Do you need oxygen in addition to the Bipap machine?___

    Is your oxygen supply and your Bipap machine) transportable so you can safely take naps?___

    Are you wheelchair-bound and need special assistance in getting through a standard household doorway?___

    In the Event of a Medical Emergency

    In case of a medical emergency, the following information will be necessary:

    The emergency contact's name___________________________________________________

    What is the emergency contact's relationship to you? Is the person a spouse?___ Mommy?___Daddy?___Big Sister?___Big Brother?___Female Babysitter?___ Male Babysitter?___Friend?___

    Does the person know that you are an AB/DL?___Is the emergency contact aware that you will be attending a babysitting session?___Should the babysitter assist you with concealing your babysitting session?___Should he or she redress you in your "Street Clothes" if it becomes necessary to call an ambulance?___

    Address___________________________City_____________________________________

    State_____________Zip______________Home Phone_____________________________

    Business Phone____________________________Pager:____________________________

    Email address_____________________________Fax number________________________

    If you are severely disabled and/or may occasionally require the medical assistance of your physician of record, please indicate your physician's data below.

    Address___________________________City_____________________________________

    State_____________Zip______________Home Phone_____________________________

    Business Phone____________________________Pager:____________________________

    Email address_____________________________Fax number________________________

    Arrival information

    Arrival Date____________________

    Estimated Time of Arrival (ETA)__________

    Pick Baby up at:_______________________

    Bus Information____________ ______Bus Station__________

    Airport ___________ Flight NO________

    Car travel: Baby's car____ rental car_____

    Train Information_________________Train Station__________

    Hotel Address__________________________

    Hotel Phone____________________________