How to Find a Babysitter for an Adult Baby
NOTE: Mama Jenn makes no guarantee and cannot assume any legal, financial or any other responsibility for interactions between Babysitters listed on this page and anyone who contacts them for babysitting services. The babysitters, mommies, and nannies are listed on this page only as a service to the Adult Baby community.
Finding a babysitter for an AB is tedious and time consuming, but not impossible task. Professional sitter services, especially those who advertise that they will sit for the elderly or adults are your best bet. Nursing agencies that offer at home nursing services are your next best avenue of approach. The idea is to get a "professional" of from either the Heath Services industry or from the Babysitting community or (the least desirable source) from professional dominatrixes. Carefully explain exactly what services that you will need from your sitter. (see form below for what sitters like to know) Quietly emphasize in a reasonable manner that you need nursing or babysitting services and have no interest in "Adult Services". If questioned, explain that you don't expect sexual services, but that you are completely incontinent and have psychologically "adjusted" to your lack of bladder and bowel control by roleplaying a baby - complete with bottle feedings. Explain that you are ambulatory and are able to walk and give your babysitter or nurse help in your care.
Sometimes it can be helpful to mention that your psychiatrist has recommended roleplaying as a means of accepting your helpless (completely incontinent) condition. Health care professionals are particularly susceptible to this approach if you are honest at the outset. They are used to dealing with wet and dirty diapers when caring for incontinent elderly patients and are not very surprised if a man has an erection during a diaper change. Sometimes it's useful to have a woman (your real mother, your wife or girlfriend or a female friend) make the phone calls for you as a "concerned" family member or friend. Under no circumstances should you misrepresent your needs or tell them that you are a real baby to be cared for. Misrepresentation of the situation could lead to your arrest. Be honest and prepared to make a lot of phone calls!
Of course, if there is an AB babysitter in your area, he or she might be the perfect solution. Advertising on AB want ads such as the one on our page and DPF's page might help too; especially if you can't afford the high fees that professionals charge. If you don't have time or patience to search out your own sitter, and are either too embarrassed, frightened to make inquires on your own, but have the money for a specialized search, then use Kathi's Sitter search listed at the bottom of this article. She is an expert in finding babysitters in local areas.
Mommies, Nanny's, Babysitters, and Mistresses who have Websites
The following are weblinks to men and women who advertise on the Web that they catering to or are willing to babysit Adult Babies. It is legal to advertise such services because they are not sexual services and do not constitute prostitution. Although some of the women listed are "Professional Dominatrixes", not all those listed fall into that category. Please check their Website first for their rules, fees or forms. All of them are alike in one respect; they don't offer sexual services, so don't ask. Click on the Mommy's name to go to their websites.
Name |
City/State |
phone |
rate |
Notes |
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Aunt Linda | New Orleans, Louisiana | abnursery@aol.com | |||
Fantasy Makers | 510-234-7887 | $140 an hour | |||
Lady Lilith | San Francisco, CA (also Pinole and Vallejo, CA | lilith@ladylilith.com | donation is $200 an hour | I have lots of books, toys, and games. Baby food and bottle feedings are included. Please, no poopy diapers. | |
Kristen | Northern Pennsylvania | kmw@epix.net | No fee listed | Note: Kristen is a 48-year-old male | |
Miss Erica | Columbus. Ohio | ericakent@aol.com | |||
Mistress Eisanna | San Francisco, California | (415) 206-1100 | |||
Mistress Intrigue | Fort Lauderdale, Florida | domina@mistressintrigue.com | |||
Mistress Isha | Melbourne, Australia | cruelisha@mistressisha.com | |||
Mistress Josephine | San Francisco, California | 415-551-7125 | |||
Mistress K | Jacksonville Fl/Southeast GA | MistressK1@webtv.net | |||
Mistress Psyche | Baltimore, Maryland | psyche@connext.net | |||
Mistress Samantha | New York, New York | Mistress-Samantha@usa.net | |||
Mistress Tamara | Greensboro, North Carolina | mistresstamara@mistresstamara.com | |||
Mistress Zenith | San Diego, California | 619-298-5844 | |||
Mommy2Love | Hollywood, CA | mommy2love@aol.com | $99 | ||
Mommy Angel | Quebec, Canada | mommy4ab@yahoo.com | No fee | not a professional | |
Mommy Dee Dee | Montreal, Canada | mommie@prisms.net | (Submit Babysitting form) | ||
Mommy Leslie | Dayton, Ohio | loveshell99@yahoo.com | No fee | not a professional | |
Mommy Shelly | Dayton, Ohio | 937-878-0211 call anytime. | mommyshell@hotmail.com | Mommy Shelly is a nurse by profession, | |
Mommy Mia | Los Angeles, California | 310-827-4518 | |||
Mommy Moon | Seattle, Washington | mistressmoon@clubstiletto.com | |||
Mummy Shelly | England - East Sussex 15 minutes from Brighton | 0777 9948399 | hello@mummyshelley.co.uk | £90 hour (minimum) | Fee includes all food, drink, napppies and use of all clothes, furniture and facilities. |
Nanny Lynnette | Hartford City, Indiana | ladylynnette@yahoo.com | |||
Nanny Nanc | Toronto, Canada | Nanny_nanc_@hotmail.com | |||
Nanny Patty | Seattle, Tacoma, and Everett | nelson52@wa.freei.net | $25.00/hour 4 hour min. |
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Mommy Gillie | Vancouver, Canada | ravenfyre@telus.net |
Mommy and Daddy Babysitters without Websites
Name |
City/State |
phone |
rate |
Notes |
|
Cathy Ann | Madison Htes MI | (248) 541-7682. | $100.
/ Hr but would like a 2 Hr minimum and $350 / Day. |
I
am not an AB but I do take care of one. female sitter,
gay/straight okay, professional. |
|
Eugene L Barry Jr | Middletown, NY | (914) 342-2059 after 7pm | ebarryjr@orn.net | $30 per hour, $150 per day, | no weekend service available, gay/straight okay, non-professional, male sitter, no AB furnishings, |
T.I. | Atlanta, GA | (770) 452-7181 anytime | LoveURMommy@aol.com | $200 per hour | full day service or weekend service not available, gay/straight okay, professional, female sitter, some AB furnishings, |
Matilda | Ottawa ON | babygirlie81@yahoo.com | $30.00 an hour or $100.00 per day. | I do not have access in my home for darling AB's, but am willing to travel in Ottawa to the home of any AB. A day is from 10am until about 2pm. I honour most requests and wishes (as long as they are resonable) and am willing to care for AB's every Friday. | |
MommyNicky | Jacksonville, FL. | (904) 292-2665 | mommynicky@hotmail.com | $200 per hour | full day or weekend service not available, gay/straight okay, professional, female sitter, some AB furnishings, |
Tommy Teague | Deland, FL | (863) 447-1385 | $50 per hour, $150 per day, $200 per weekend, | non-professional, gay/straight okay, professional, female sitter available, some AB furnishings | |
Ed David | Clinton Township, MI | 810-226-0673 anytime | edavid@wwnet.com | ||
Lynn Juozilaitis | Bolingbrook, IL | 693 459-4510 9 AM until midnight local time | |||
Joel Schmidt | Chesterfield, MO | (314) 907-4659 anytime | $10 per hour, $50 per full day, $100 per weekend, | gay/straight okay, non-professional, no female sitter available, no AB furnishings | |
Sondra Mars | Los Angeles, CA | (323) 461-9357 M-F, 9am-5pm, | commommy@goddesnarquesa.net | $200 per hour, $600 per day, | no weekend service available, female sitter, gay/straight okay, professional, no AB furnishings |
Eve Harrison | Marina Del Rey, CA | (310) 827-4518 9am-3pm PST | flexible day and weekend rates, | female sitter, gay/straight okay, professional, some AB furnishings | |
Rocky | Texas and Nationwide | abycamp@yahoo.com | email for rate | AB/DL Caretaker & Massage Therapy specialist working with the AB/DL community.Email for more information | |
Abby | New York City Area | abbyland19@aol.com | $30-$50 an hour - $300.00 per day - 4hr minimum. 7 hr per day maximum. | Professional Mommy. All AB's welcome to email. Prefer male AB's. Will go to AB's home. Gay/bi/straight/CD/welcome. Weekends can be arranged. Available for full week care. Will travel, but prefer NYC area. | |
Uncle Frank | Kingman, Arizona | Frank2AB@aol.com | rate not listed | I am expereinced in babysitting and changing adults. I can travel to larger near-by cities. Available most weekends. | |
John Talon | Cincinnati, Ohio (OH_KY_IN) | talonk@hotmail.com | Rate negotiable. | In your house Babysitting for little girls |
Phone Mommies
Phone Mommies are women who advertise on the Web that they well treat an adult client like a baby over the phone for a fee. Click on the Mommy's name to go to their websites.
Name |
phone |
rate |
Notes |
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Auntie Zane | 1-800-684-1706 | $1.99 per minute with a 10 minute minimum | Calls are billed to your
Visa, Master Card, Discover Or American Express. "the nurse and the firm hand!" |
|
Mommy2Love | 213-461-2829 | $1.75 per minute with a 20 minute minimum. | Major credit cards are accepted | |
Mommy Gwen | 1-800--360-6205 | mommygwen@aol.com | $1.99 per minute with a 10 minute minimum | Calls are billed to your
Visa, Master Card, Discover Or American Express. "A tender touch of loving care!" |
Miss Erica | 614-443-1696 | $3.00/min. 15/min. minimum charge | Visa - Mastercard - American Express | |
Miss Evelyn | (937) 254-6649 | evelyn937@mailcity.com | No fees listed | |
Mistress Psyche | 410 719-1566 | No fees listed | ||
Mommy Ann | 757/488-6105 | $25 for 15 minutes. | Personal checks accepted from DPF members only. | |
Mommy Dee Dee | mommie@prisms.net | 30minute phone calls cost of $30 | If you are willing to commit to once a week for four weeks, the cost is $25 per call or $100 for the 4 week period, thus saving you a total of $20. | |
Nanny Lynnette | 1-765-396-2237 | $ 2 per min | MasterCard and Visa |
An American BabyCamp
What could be a better and more pleasant babysitting experience for an AB than to go to a babycamp where one can be a baby for three or more consecutive days in absolute privacy without worrying about intruders, the phone, food or diaper changes? If you have the money, then a babycamp may be the right approach for you!
BABYCAMP in the Beverly Hills area. BABYCAMP is an ADULT-ONLY age-regression, role-playing experience. BABYCAMP is a fantasy atmosphere catered to the needs of the AB/DL com0munity. All equipment is Adult-sized and Fully Functional. This includes, but not limited to, Cribs, High Chairs, Playpens, Bottles etc. BABYCAMP supplies ALL Adult Baby Clothing and Baby Needs. If your needs are specific, they will work to accommodate you in the best way possible.
Quote from their Webpage:
BABYCAMP is All-Inclusive beginning atUS$1250,Including 3Day/2Night Accommodations, ALL Meals, Custom-Chosen Adult Baby Clothing PLUS Our BEAUTIFUL Staff!
A British Baby Hotel
The very next best thing to a Baby Camp is a Baby Hotel for baby's British Holiday! Mummy Hazel operates a boarding house in the U.K with many non-sexual AB services. (Please note that diaper soiling is NOT permitted in her establishment and will result in a hefty fine for the offending baby! Wetting is okay.)
Mummy Hazel in the United Kingdom (mailto:mummyhazel@hbenterprise.co.uk) A £50 booking fee is required, and is refunded only upon arrival
CLUB MEMBERS
Overnight stay, Mon-Fri £80/night, weekends £120/night
Clothes hire, per visit £20
Restraint, per visit £20
Afternoons, Mon-Fri only £20/hr (min. 2hrs)
NON CLUB MEMBERS
Overnight stay, Mon-Fri £100/night, weekends £150/night
Clothes hire, per visit £25
Restraint, per visit £25
Afternoons Mon-Fri only £25/hr
Baby Club
Hush-a-Bye
Baby Club in Kent, England
Primarily focused on male Sissy babies, Mummy Clare runs the
Club. Baby food, bottled milk and diaper services are included in
the fees. No email address. (Adult baby club, adult baby clothing
catalogues available)
Prices at last available quote:
Approximately $110 a night ($140 for non-members), Spanking is
about $7 more.
Address:
HUSH-A-BYE BABY CLUB
c/o 43 SOUTH HILL ROAD
GRAVESEND
KENT DA12 1JX
A Fee-Based Sitter Search
If you are desperate for a local babysitter who is (usually) a trained nurse or an experienced babysitter from a temporary agency that has been informed of your needs (without embarrassing you by having to make the calls yourself), you can hire Kathi to make a baby Sitter Search for you!
Note: Kathi charges a $350 "finder's fee" for locating a sitter for you for her time and long distance charges. The sitter will charge between $30 to $50 per hour in additional fees. Kathy makes verbal contracts in your behalf and (quite rationally) insists that the behavioral guidelines that she outlines to the babysitting services must be followed to the letter by every one of her clients.
Kathi's Adult Baby Sitter Search or (mailto:absitters@aol.com)
Notice: More Babysitters Needed!
Although this is the most comprehensive list of babysitters for ABs thats ever been posted on the Web, the demand for local babysitters far exceeds the supply. If you are a babysitter who would like to babysit ABs, email your Babysitter name, your city and state as well as your preferred email address. If you have Adult-sized baby furnishings and an established rate, we would be happy to post that information as well. If you would like your name removed from this list you can also let us know here.
Email me with the following info at babylover4ever@aol.comBabysitter name:
City and State:
Homepage:
Your Email:
Additional
Info: Getting Started as a Babysitter for AB's There
is little difference in babysitting an AB or a little baby. In
some ways, babysitting an AB is easier because they are too big
to carry around. If you are babysitting in the AB's home, then an
hourly fee of $30 to $50 dollars is acceptable. Higher fees may
be charged for babysitters who have complete nurseries with
adult-sized furnishings as well as AB clothing and diapers. It is
essential, however, to establish the ground rules and the needs
of the baby from the inception of the agreement to babysit an
adult. This document is meant as a guideline for babysitters to
establish the initial contract between the adult baby and the
babysitter. If you don't permit messy diapers, then this is the
place to indicate your limits. Use the Save function of your
browser to save this as an html or text document. Then you can
edit it for email or Webposting purposes. Sample Babysitting Form Baby's Legal Name_______________________________________________ Address___________________________City________________________________ State_____________Zip______________Phone______________________________ Physiological
Gender_______Age_____Height_____(Inches or cm) Weight______(Lbs
or kgs) Email
address___________________________________ Your
sexual preference: Are you straight?___Gay?___Bisexual?___ Your
Babysitter Sex/Role Preference Mommy___Daddy___Big
Sister___Big Brother___Female Babysitter___ Male
Babysitter___Friend___ Your
Baby Role Your Baby
Name______________________Your assumed gender________ Your
assumed age role while you are being babysat Infant(Newborn to nine
months)____ Baby (nine to twelve months)____ Toddler (Twelve months
to Two Years)___ Preschool (Two years to
four years)____Kindergarten (Five to Six years)___ Pre-adolescent (Seven
to eight years)____ Adolescent (Nine to Twelve years)____ Teenage (Thirteen to
Eighteen years)___ Your
behavior while you are being babysat Are you a demanding
baby?___A sissy baby?___A submissive baby?___ A whinny
baby?___Outgoing?___Shy?___Fearful?___Clinging?___Helpless?___Introspective?____Do
you suck your thumb?____ Do you need to cry?___ Do you need a
pacifier?____ Do you need cuddling?___ Your
baby personality Are you
Playful?____Silly?____Fun?___Helpful?___Fearful?____ Cuddly?____Loving?___Passive?___ Do you need to take
naps?___If "yes" to naps, what
time(s)__________________________ Other________________________________________________________________ Your
Potty Needs Do you need
diapers?____Always?____Occasionally?____Frequently?___ Do you wet your
diapers?___Mess them?___Both?___ Are you dry during the
day?___Dry at night?___ Do you have frequent
"potty accidents"?____ If "yes" to
accidents, are they Wet?___Messy?___or Both?___ Do you wear training
pants?___ If "yes". During day?___, During nigh?t____ Have occasional
accidents in big boy undies or soil/wet them frequently?___ Other potty
needs______________________________________ Your
Feeding Needs Do you need a baby
bottle or tippy cup?______________ Do you drink Baby
Formula?___Fruit Juices?___Fresh Goat's
Milk?___Water?___Other?___ If you have selected
Baby Formula, which brand is your
favorite?________________________ If you have selected
Fruit Juices, which are your favorites?________________________ If you have selected
Other, which are your favorites?________________________ Alcoholic Drinks:
Kaluha Chocolate Milk___Mama Jenn's Special Formula___ Do you eat baby
food?____Do you eat First Foods?___Second Foods? ___OrJunior
(Todder) Foods?____ If yes" to baby
food please indicate your favorite brand. Heinz?___Gerber?____ Do you eat baby
Dinners?___Vegetables?___Fruits?___Deserts?____ What are your favorite
baby
foods?______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Do you eat big people
food?___Do you need a baby bib at a restaurant?___ Do you have a favorite
fast-food restaurant?___If "yes" what is the name of
the restaurant?______________________________________________ Would you like to be
brought to the restaurant by your babysitter?___Or would you
rather accompany him or her in the backseat of the car to the
take-out window and eat it later?___ Do you need to be
spoon-fed?___Can you feed yourself?___ Do you have other
feeding needs?__________________________________________ Your
Clothing/Dressing Needs Do you have any special
clothing needs?______________________________________________ Do you have any special
baby clothing that you would like to bring to the babysitting
session?___ If "yes",
then describe the
clothing_____________________________________________________ Do you need to be
dressed and undressed?___Can you dress yourself?___ Can you put on and tie
your shoes?___ Do you have other
deessing needs?__________________________________________ Playtime Do you need a
playpen?____Do you play with baby toys?___Toddler Toys?___ Do you have your own
favorite toys to bring to the babysitting session?______ Do you like watching
Cartoons?____What is the name of your favorite
cartoon(s)?_________________________________________________________ Do you have other TV
favorites?__________________________________ Public
Outings as a Baby Never___Sometimes___Frequently___Discreetly___Open___Any
Thing Goes_______ Dressed as an
infant/baby___Dressed as toddler___Dressed as a little boy or
girl____ Other____________________________________________________________________ Discipline None__Hand
Slapping___Scolding___Spanking___Time outs/Corner Time___Early
bedtime/naps___Enemas___Laxatives___Soap washings of dirty
mouth___ Other__________________________________________________________________ Your
Health needs Are you a
diabetic?___Are you insulin dependent?___Are you epileptic?__if
"yes", do you have Grand Mal seizures?___Do you have a
heart condition?___Do you need nitroglycerine on occasion?___Do
you have any medication(s) that a babysitter should administer on
an hourly or daily basis?___ If "yes" to
the above question, please describe the medication(s) and how
often it (or they) needs to be
administered________________________________________________________________________ Do you wear
dentures?___ Do you wear
contacts?___ Do you wear either of
the above or a special medical appliance that you need when you
are roleplaying a baby?___ Do you have moderate to
severe sleep apnea?___If "yes", do you have and use a
Bipap machine every night?___ Do you need oxygen in
addition to the Bipap machine?___ Is your oxygen supply
and your Bipap machine) transportable so you can safely take
naps?___ Are you
wheelchair-bound and need special assistance in getting through a
standard household doorway?___ In the
Event of a Medical Emergency In case of a medical
emergency, the following information will be necessary: The emergency contact's
name___________________________________________________ What is the emergency
contact's relationship to you? Is the person a spouse?___
Mommy?___Daddy?___Big Sister?___Big Brother?___Female
Babysitter?___ Male Babysitter?___Friend?___ Does the person know
that you are an AB/DL?___Is the emergency contact aware that you
will be attending a babysitting session?___Should the babysitter
assist you with concealing your babysitting session?___Should he
or she redress you in your "Street Clothes" if it
becomes necessary to call an ambulance?___ Address___________________________City_____________________________________ State_____________Zip______________Home
Phone_____________________________ Business
Phone____________________________Pager:____________________________ Email
address_____________________________Fax
number________________________ If you are severely
disabled and/or may occasionally require the medical assistance
of your physician of record, please indicate your physician's
data below. Address___________________________City_____________________________________ State_____________Zip______________Home
Phone_____________________________ Business
Phone____________________________Pager:____________________________ Email
address_____________________________Fax
number________________________ Arrival
information Arrival
Date____________________ Estimated Time of
Arrival (ETA)__________ Pick Baby up
at:_______________________ Bus
Information____________ ______Bus Station__________ Airport ___________
Flight NO________ Car travel: Baby's
car____ rental car_____ Train
Information_________________Train Station__________ Hotel
Address__________________________ Hotel
Phone____________________________